Here are some useful resources for supporting couples counseling:

Feelings and Needs Inventories

Feelings Inventory (print and have handy around the house for connecting communication)

Needs Inventory (print and have handy around the house for connecting communication)

Books for Couples

US by Terrence Real. How to be more relational rather than individualistic. Forward by Bruce Springsteen!

Wired For Love by Stan Tatkin. How to understand your partner's nervous system and attachment style to defuse conflict and create intimacy and connection.

Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel. This book invites couples to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.

Not Just Friends: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Shirley Glass

Other Books

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall Rosenberg (wonderful guide to effective communication and healthy relationships)